I have always been fascinated by the differences between the male and female brain--mathematical skills versus verbal skills, hunting versus gathering, spatial relationships versus social skills (even though I ROCK at Tetris). Is it nature or nurture? Who cares--we are the beneficiaries of stereotypes in action.
When we went to Denver, it didn’t take long before our moms followed us. As mentioned in a previous posting, they sat in the hospital room with us and went through the emotional rollercoaster in real time.
Our dads, however, coped differently. We came back from Denver to a home makeover. They replaced our bed, tiled the bathrooms, installed new lighting in the kitchen ceiling, tidied the yard, replace the kitchen faucet, got rid of our decorative throw pillows, fixed the water softener, and they’re still coming up with projects. (They also did this when Danika was born.) It’s amazing! How many more rounds of chemo before we come back to an unrecognizable dream house?
Dads, we love you so much. We are incredibly fortunate to have fathers as compassionate and loving as you. Dani has two of the best grandpas in the world! Thank you. Thank you. Another silver lining. Thank you.
P.S. Gic, Clarky and Little B--We know our dads had a ton of help! Thank you so much!! We love you guys a ton.
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Tammy- I've known your dad for years and understand how generous, talented, and kind he is. You're so lucky to have him! I've not met Bryce's dad, but it sounds much the same. Dad's rule!
Christy
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